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Baby gays, we love you!
Howdy partners! 😀
Ah, the sweet sweet release of a Friday. We made it. There is so much opportunity. The world is our oyster! Unless you are on the East Coast and battling an ice / snow storm at this very moment. (Please stay safe out there!!). What’s on the agenda this weekend for me, you may ask? Well, lots and lots of Pickleball. I’m also going to the batting cages with some pals, which I haven’t done since I was a wee lass. I’m also maybe even going to a poetry night! A good way to get out all the feels. <3
New episode!: Baby Gay, Big Pleasure: Coming Out Later in Life with Eva Bloom
Coming out later in life? Welcome to you! Coming out is such a personal process, whether you're coming out to yourself or your loved ones. In this episode, DB talks with queer coach Eva Bloom all about what coming out later in life can look like.
Our guest this week is Eva Bloom!
Eva Bloom (they/them) is a queer & trans late bloomer coach, community facilitator, and inclusive sex-ed speaker. With training in social psychology and their own lived experience, they help adults come into their queerness with confidence, and university & college students have healthy relationships. Eva is the founder of the digital platform @whatsmybodydoing which has supported over 3 million people across the globe. You can learn more about them at:
Further reading:
Obsessed with the url and vision over at baby.gay
“The Catastrophist, or: On coming out as trans at 37” by the amazing amazing amazing Emily St. James
AND Emily’s amazinggggg breakout novel, Woodworking!
This edition is brought to you by: LELO
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Correct answer: D) Anterior fornix.
The A-spot is a pleasure-sensitive area located deep inside the vagina along the front wall, just before the cervix. “Fornix” literally means arch or vault -- aka a tucked-away pleasure pocket.
✨ Quick A-spot fun facts:
Deeper than the G-spot
Rich in nerve endings
Can boost natural lubrication
Loves slow, steady pressure over fast thrusting
Curious what deep pleasure actually feels like? Consider this your invitation to… research.
The LELO Enigma™ Double Sonic is designed to reach the A-spot with a curved insertable tail and a sonic tip that delivers steady, intentional pressure where fingers and bodies sometimes can’t.
💘 Valentine’s Day bonus: LELO is running a huge sale -- and you get an extra 20% off with my stackable code DB20.
What’s Up Down There (Sex Ed in the News)
FDA Targets Gender-Affirming Garments, Warning Companies That Serve Trans Customers (Rewire News Group) - In December 2025, the FDA sent letters to 12 companies that sell chest binders — compression garments that look like sports bras — a letter stating they must register with the FDA because chest binders are “medical devices.” The big issue? Only companies that market to trans people received the warning. Read the reactions of several affected business owners — and the very real warning they have for how this is another weapon in the Trump administration’s war on trans people.
A Texas lawsuit tests the legal protections for doctors who provide abortion pills (The 19th) - Texas has a bad track record of passing terrible law after terrible law meant to make abortion completely out of reach in the state. So far, none of their attempts have succeeded, as Texans have continued to access abortion pills by mail. House Bill 7, however, is a new approach: it allows private citizens to sue ANYONE who mails or distributes abortion pills, making it a direct challenge to abortion shield laws, which exist in several states where abortion is lrg to protect abortion providers who provide care across borders. And it’s already being tested—this lawsuit that could have chilling consequences for bodily autonomy is one that we should all follow.
As male birth control gets closer to reality, men are lining up for clinical trials (STAT) - While the receptiveness of men to taking birth control may have been low in the past, it has surged in recent years—partially due to the fall of Roe v. Wade in 2022. And of the products currently being tested, there are THREE that are potentially only a few years away from commercialization. Read the stories of the men who are flooding email inboxes for a chance to take charge of their reproduction—and the very interesting origins of birth control for men.
DB’s Download
Watching: Nonnas. Very sweet and filled with Italian food that made my mouth water and made me miss NYC (only a lil 😏)
Reading: Educated. Jfc. Really intense but can’t put it down! Highly recommend!
Listening To: Very much a throwback but Maggie Rogers’ “Heard It In A Past Life” which is one of my fav albums of all time. 🙂
What have you been loving lately?
Upcoming episode: Why do some early experiences turn into lifelong fetishes?
Love you, mean it,
<3 DB